{"id":102,"date":"2025-06-23T06:24:54","date_gmt":"2025-06-23T06:24:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/artbyar.com\/gondolatokkertje\/?p=102"},"modified":"2025-06-23T06:31:01","modified_gmt":"2025-06-23T06:31:01","slug":"baratsagok-amelyek-elhalnak-mert-senki-sem-ontozte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/2025\/06\/23\/baratsagok-amelyek-elhalnak-mert-senki-sem-ontozte\/","title":{"rendered":"Bar\u00e1ts\u00e1gok, amelyek elhalnak, mert senki sem \u00f6nt\u00f6zte"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt semmi. Nem volt vita, v\u00e1d, t\u00e1voz\u00e1s. Csak elm\u00falt. Mint egy n\u00f6v\u00e9ny, amit elfelejtettek locsolni. A bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g is \u00e9l\u0151 dolog \u2013 figyelmet, t\u00f6r\u0151d\u00e9st k\u00e9r. Csendben, de k\u00e9r. Sokan azt hiszik, az igazi kapcsolatok nem ig\u00e9nyelnek energi\u00e1t, \u201eha fontos, \u00fagyis megmarad\u201d. De a k\u00f6t\u0151d\u00e9s nem automatikus. A k\u00f6z\u00f6s eml\u00e9kek elhalv\u00e1nyulnak, ha nem \u00e9p\u00fclnek \u00fajabbak. A bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g is d\u00f6nt\u00e9s \u2013 \u00fajra \u00e9s \u00fajra. \u00c9s ha egyik f\u00e9l sem ny\u00fal m\u00e1r a m\u00e1sik ut\u00e1n, lassan semmi nem marad, csak egy ismer\u0151s arc valaki m\u00faltj\u00e1b\u00f3l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/elszaradt-virag-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-106\" style=\"width:270px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/elszaradt-virag-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/elszaradt-virag-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/elszaradt-virag-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/06\/elszaradt-virag.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nt semmi. Nem volt vita, v\u00e1d, t\u00e1voz\u00e1s. Csak elm\u00falt. Mint egy n\u00f6v\u00e9ny, amit elfelejtettek locsolni. A bar\u00e1ts\u00e1g is \u00e9l\u0151 dolog \u2013 figyelmet, t\u00f6r\u0151d\u00e9st k\u00e9r. Csendben, de k\u00e9r. Sokan azt hiszik, az igazi kapcsolatok nem ig\u00e9nyelnek energi\u00e1t, \u201eha fontos, \u00fagyis megmarad\u201d. De a k\u00f6t\u0151d\u00e9s nem automatikus. A k\u00f6z\u00f6s eml\u00e9kek elhalv\u00e1nyulnak, ha nem \u00e9p\u00fclnek \u00fajabbak. A [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[87,94,105,93,102,100,21,91,99,97,96,104,90,98,89,88,103,92,101,95],"class_list":["post-102","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-baratsag","tag-baratsag-mint-noveny","tag-csendes-szakadas","tag-egyoldalu-kapcsolat","tag-el-nem-hangzott-bucsu","tag-elhalvanyulo-emlekek","tag-elmulas","tag-elmulo-baratsag","tag-emberi-kapcsolatok","tag-erzelmi-elhanyagolas","tag-figyelem-hianya","tag-kapcsolati-dontesek","tag-kapcsolatok","tag-kapcsolatok-hanyatlasa","tag-kotodes","tag-kozony","tag-lassu-eltavolodas","tag-lelki-elhidegules","tag-multbeli-ismerosok","tag-torodes"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=102"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":107,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/102\/revisions\/107"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=102"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=102"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=102"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}