{"id":95,"date":"2025-06-21T11:23:21","date_gmt":"2025-06-21T11:23:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/artbyar.com\/gondolatokkertje\/?p=95"},"modified":"2025-06-21T11:23:21","modified_gmt":"2025-06-21T11:23:21","slug":"a-figyelem-mestersegerol","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/2025\/06\/21\/a-figyelem-mestersegerol\/","title":{"rendered":"A figyelem mesters\u00e9g\u00e9r\u0151l"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Van, hogy az ember ott \u00fcl valaki mellett, tal\u00e1n egy eb\u00e9dn\u00e9l, tal\u00e1n a munka ut\u00e1ni k\u00e1v\u00e9z\u00e1s k\u00f6zben, \u00e9s besz\u00e9lgetnek \u2014 id\u0151j\u00e1r\u00e1sr\u00f3l, tervekr\u0151l, sorozatokr\u00f3l. A szavak megvannak, a hang is ott van, m\u00e9gsem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik semmi val\u00f3di. Mert nem mindig az sz\u00e1m\u00edt, mit mond a m\u00e1sik, hanem amit nem mond. A cs\u00f6ndekben lakik a f\u00e1jdalom, nem a mondatokban. \u00c9s n\u00e9ha egyetlen k\u00e9rd\u00e9s, egy val\u00f3di figyelmet hordoz\u00f3 tekintet el\u00e9g volna, hogy valami t\u00f6r\u00e9keny bizalom megny\u00edljon. De legt\u00f6bbsz\u00f6r elsiet\u00fcnk mellette \u2014 elfoglaltak vagyunk, f\u00e1radtak, azt hissz\u00fck, m\u00e9g van id\u0151. Azt\u00e1n egyszer csak nincs. \u00c9s marad a hi\u00e1ny, amit m\u00e1r nem lehet bet\u00f6lteni sem sz\u00f3val, sem hallgat\u00e1ssal. Figyelni neh\u00e9z, mert le kell hozz\u00e1 tenni \u00f6nmagunk zaj\u00e1t. De ember\u00e9letek m\u00falnak ezen a csendes mesters\u00e9gen.<br><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Van, hogy az ember ott \u00fcl valaki mellett, tal\u00e1n egy eb\u00e9dn\u00e9l, tal\u00e1n a munka ut\u00e1ni k\u00e1v\u00e9z\u00e1s k\u00f6zben, \u00e9s besz\u00e9lgetnek \u2014 id\u0151j\u00e1r\u00e1sr\u00f3l, tervekr\u0151l, sorozatokr\u00f3l. A szavak megvannak, a hang is ott van, m\u00e9gsem t\u00f6rt\u00e9nik semmi val\u00f3di. Mert nem mindig az sz\u00e1m\u00edt, mit mond a m\u00e1sik, hanem amit nem mond. A cs\u00f6ndekben lakik a f\u00e1jdalom, nem a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=95"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":96,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95\/revisions\/96"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=95"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=95"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gondolatkert.com\/gkwp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=95"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}